One hair-brained scheme, yes, Jack Guilt dragged my ass down that other highway to hell remember? Let us not.
So the hairbrained scheme originated here 2 years ago when I read of a poster's husband who had been busted on a website called adultfriendfinder. God as my witness, I had not a clue what that was much less what it meant to have a "profile" there. This was way before I was ever on any social networking sites. Way before I joined myspace or facebook. I typed it into my address bar, added the dot com and lost whatever innocence I might have had left after my MLC. We joked about it all over my thread that week...
Flashback to a few weeks prior to that before I go on...
My husband knew I posted here because I had told him. Some of my friends had even posted on a thread TO my husband. Anyway he was well aware of my activities here and I thought he might have been reading. Everything had grown stagnant and it's apparent in the hindsight that I had reached a point of desperation.
Thus began the stupidest thing I've ever done. I was totally renegade - I didn't tell ANY of my DB peeps.
I created a profile on adultfriendfinder. My thinking at the time was that my husband would see the talk on my profile and go see what it was and "find" me. I did not have naked pics of myself on there but I did have some "hot ones" and a face shot with sunglasses. I was not hiding. The text to my profile was written with the idea of - if Jeff went there - he would remember how good things had been between us before. I was that desperate. I tried to appeal to the "man" in him.
For 10 days I waited.
On the 10th day he found me. It was a Saturday morning. I received an email from a profile on the site. I opened it and it said:
