Continue to be a loving supportive wife because that is what you are. A man would have to be a total idiot not to see how much love I am giving and how lucky he is to have me....he will 'wake up' and realize what he is losing by leaving me.....
My thought process today is
Being loving and supportive for a year has given him a year to explore (or NOT! ) his feelings, think, think, and overthink without having to make any real decisions. It has given him time to just keep slowly backing away. It's like he has been looking at me/facing me the whole time and I've had my eyes on his face without realizing that all the while he was backing further and further away.
I didn't explain that well, I know. I just mean he has done just enough reaching out and sharing with me to keep me connected to him, yet he has distanced himself at the same time? Like our connection is entirely at his will....I get as much of his time and attention as he is willing to give me, period. We were talking about this on someone elses thread, whoever is less 'attached' has the power....
Anyway I am rambling so I will stop. I just feel a little naive that I kept trusting that if I just loved enough it would somehow work out for me
Now I am aware that is not the case, so I am taking care of me and building my "bobbi jo" life...
) his feelings, think, think, and overthink without having to make any real decisions. It has given him time to just keep slowly backing away. It's like he has been looking at me/facing me the whole time and I've had my eyes on his face without realizing that all the while he was backing further and further away.
