First I am sorry that you are here, but this is the place to be for help and encouragement. Read all that you can about MLC it will help you understand the phases the actions and what she is going thru,and what you should be aware of..read other posters stitches and post here.

There are happy endings for some..how long it takes is up to them not you..

Do not pursue her...do not initate any R talks
Do get a life (GAL )on your own you will be better off, I'm not saying end the M but you have to GAL on your own in order to survive this.
Do come here to post and vent and ask for help we are all going thru this..and it helps that Michelle has this web site for us.
It is better to talk here than with W.
\Again I am sorry that you are here but welcome
ITSY

M54
H54
married 30 years
Prostitues and Other women "100's" 10/7/2004
Prostitue/Junkie girlfriend 6/04-1/07?
Left 1/5/05 returned 1/9/05
Asked h to leave 4/2005 Had to, prostitues
OW 5/2005 not a prostitue
Divorced 9/2006