Not sure how you feel about my stich and not sure if should matter, but I want you to know that YOUR posts have helped me. Thank you for that and glad to have you back and posting good stuff once again.
I still mess up, and this stuff is hard. It helps to find people here who understand, have compassion and even make some of the same mistakes. Today I did something to annoy my H, because he called his ow (whom he was on the phone with right in front of me) 'sweety' and I was about to stick my finger in my mouth when I noticed my D10 could see me, and I stopped dead in my tracks, knowing that it was too late. H was angry at me for it. He left angry. I am the fool who then apologises and even tries to bring across a point to him about it having hurt to hear him call the ow that right infront of me, but then found myself in the 'I think, no I think' battle. We each see this all from our own point in life and right now, many of us LBS's are in a totally different place to our MLC spouses....which makes many many conversations virtually impossible. I should have known this after nearly 3 years of this, but somehow I still seem to make the mistake of thinking one of these days H will understand me and maybe even agree. What a fool I am.
Anyway, long story short, thank you for having been the type of person to say it like it is and yet have a caring character that has helped so many of us, come to terms with things.
Glad you're back. Take care
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
