Oh yeah, the how long does it take question.

It takes as long as it takes. You can make it longer with your actions, but you sure as hell cannot speed it up to get it over with faster.

You cannot help, you cannot fix her, but you can be there when she gets through it.


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TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet