Ok, I am here, now what?

[Ready2Change]

Hi,

I haven't followed you sitch, but I will give you my 2 cents.

Your communication in R is magnitudes better than mine. Count your blessings.

You want to grab and kiss her. I feel that would be too aggressive. How good are you at flirting? Do you practice flirting with other women? The book "Teach Yourself Flirting" was a good read. I am very comfortable flirting now. When I get the chance with MrsR2C, I will flirt with her now that we have a base agreement on parenting responsibilities (IE Final Divorce papers)....

A bit of anger is not healthy for YOU. The book "Radical forgiveness" helped me deal with my negative emotions.

As far as detaching or working on friendship, I can do both at the same time. I can be emotionally detached from EX and still be happy, friendly, kind, empathetic, understanding, patient....

As far as asking her out, Read "Hold on to you NUTS" and the flirting book for lots of insight.

I will summarize my thoughts: The woman will give you signs that she wants to be asked out, it is you job to pick up on the signs (See the books), Women are indirect on what they want.


(I have links to the mentioned books at the top of my current thread)