Is this a mid-life crisis?

[pauld2100]

Hello,
Can anyone tell me if a woman can have MLC? hope thats not a stupit question but mt W has for a second time split up with me and this time went on a dating spree. I said things at first that pushed her farther way, at first she way willing to wait a while but i pursued and made things worse. she is now seeing someone and shows no sign of wanting anything with me. I have not tried to contact her much sent a few emails accepting the blame in hopes of at least some kind of contact but ahe hold strong to what she is doing even though it has not been working well for her either. she has said she has to move on and said i should to but in the same massage said she would love me forever but can't try again. this is a pattern for her she gets upset and can only come to this solution. all I do now when she calls is be as happy as possable when she is faily cold. its as if she if forcing her self to bury her feelings in order to see other people.. She knows I love her and I don't see that she cares much about losing me... I would like to find a way to approch this the right way if she does contact me again.. for now I am staying with NC she has called me a few times...sorry to break in here but I am trying to learn what I am dealing with here..