LD, when a person goes through something like this that puts them so far down emotionally, physically, mentally, etc...it is so awesome for you to start to pull out of the nosedive and do things that are good for YOU - when you finally, FINALLY, start to feel better and your thinking process starts evolving from all you are learning...all of that is good...and we start to feel good about ourselves again - which is generally a good thing. But for anyone who is approaching their sitch from even the most remote spiritual sense, this can be a trap. And this is what has been bugging me (this did not start last night, I still read when I was banned) - I think you need to watch out that you don't become prideful - that you don't look too far down on her.
I know you will protest and say you are not doing that. But just hear the warning from someone that's been on both sides of that same trap. I don't think you're seeing her through His eyes or loving her with His heart. I think you might think that you are, though.
I'm not trying to argue with you, LD. I just want you to be alert. It's okay to disagree with me. I might not be right but this IS exactly what's been bothering me...
