The idea of detaching is to work on YOU. It's not really a method to get your spouse to sit up and take notice (that is a side benfit when it works) It gives you time to concentrate on your own life and issues.
If you are feeling like they are not getting sorted, then what DO you feel when you aren't with / talking to your H?
SO2,
I'm with you, have replied in your thread. Stay strong.:)
