One thing I have noticed, Glam, is that my husband can tell me he has forgiven me for calling the police on him three years ago BUT all of a sudden he is bringing it up and saying he has to cover his behind around me because he does not know what I might do.

Even though they may say they forgive or say it is okay, things still come back to them and the cycle starts again and these things of the past creep back in.

I think we have to not take it so personally.

You are doing fine. Just go with the flow and take it day to day.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19