I think they can tank out w/ OP in the picture...leaving OP now thats another thing all together. My H went to a wedding with the cow and started to cry over the vows as he thought to himself, "what the heck am i doing here, this is not who i took those vows with" It was another 6 mos before he he came to see me to come home.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest