I think they can tank out w/ OP in the picture...leaving OP now thats another thing all together. My H went to a wedding with the cow and started to cry over the vows as he thought to himself, "what the heck am i doing here, this is not who i took those vows with" It was another 6 mos before he he came to see me to come home.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest