H not saying hi to D17 the other day was just another of those times where I'm left standing there shaking my head. I don't understand but HIS problem not mine.
Talked to MIL yesterday. It's been awhile and she was tickled pink. I went to her place last night and cut her dogs hair and nails. She is moving and wants me to help. I will but not when/if H is involved. I didn't tell her that but I will. She is so discusted with her son. She mentioned him once or twice. But we didn't talk about him. Just easier for both of us. Had a very good evening. I missed her and it was good to catch up. I am excited for her move. She has lived in a apartment for over 5 years and now she is moving into a house. She will be able to sit outside now and that is great.
My MIL is a great lady. She loves her children very much. Each one of them has their troubles but to everyone else they can do no wrong. She has surprised me in this. She is very angry at what H is doing/done. She supports and understands why I will not file. She tells me to hang in there but says she doesn't know how I do it. Then when he does something bad she gets angry at him and has told me more than once to get a lawyer and take him for all I can get. To go find someone else and be happy. She tells me she loves me everytime I talk to her. And yet she sees H regularly. She makes a stab at him on occasion but for the most part she stays out of it. What a great woman!
Just venting...take care all, TOH
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
