"Crap! So sorry! I was sending to my sister. I did that to you once before."
then:
"She's moving and super stressed out."
Well? That takes the cake. I have no other clues about an OM, but come on. She is close to her sister but please. I chose not to respond. In 8 hours we are scheduled to be in a therapy session talking about how to tell the kids that she is divorcing me. I have been grappling with the thought of confronting her at that time about the text.
My reasons for: 1. Honesty between us is critical if we are ever to move forward even just as parents. 2. Perhaps exposing such a secret might make it less magical or powerful. 3. Maybe there is a wife out there who should know.
My reasons against. 1. An affair is a symptom. 2. Accusing W seems anti DB. I don't want to play the victim role. 3. I should run it by my L first.
I'll try to sleep on it. It would explain so much of her attitude toward all of this.
(for those of you keeping score, I wrote about the 'once before' last summer.)
Love and Luck to you all,
L
Me 41 W 39 d7, s4 M 13 Bomb ILYBNILWY November 28th, 2007
