It's Complicated! Part 3

[Silent Chrleader]

Hey, Glam!

I see so many positives in your H's words and actions!! I'm pea green with envy!!

The only thing I would say is to maybe not run yourself down or apologize so much. He has said you are forgiven and that you have redeemed yourself. Trust his words and let go of it. I know you are trying to be validating of his feelings, but the more you talk about it, the more he is reminded of his own mistakes and that's painful to him.

We talk a lot on this board about hoping that WAS's can let go of guilt so they can move past it, but we LBS's need to be able to let our own guilt go too!

You are a beautiful, warm, caring, compassionate, faithful woman! And your H is lucky to have you in his corner!! Don't forget that!!

[[[[[[hugs]]]]]]