just to throw this out...and with Amyc's comments in mind, sometimes we can glimpse God's views but most of the time our egos are in the way. We have our scorecards, our own pain, and it clouds our vision. But now and then, we can see someone through God's eyes.
It is the line I really liked from the movie "Bruce Almighty", when Jim Carrey tells God that he doesn't just want Jennifer Aniston back; rather he wants Jennifer Aniston to be happy, and to be with someone who sees her, as he did then, through God's eyes...
Today I was lethargic about h and then I tried to do this; see him through His eyes and it does help. See their pain, the wounded child within, their dreams being dashed, and know that no one, including evil selfish WAS's, married us with the desire to hurt us, and God only knows what we've inflicted on them. We'll never really know the times our snide remarks or cold looks cut them to the core...or our overt actions and words of divorce, OP, etc, cut deeply.
Anyhow, thought I would share that. I think today what you described was seeing her, through His eyes. Even if only for a glimpse. Now, if we can only get her to see you through God's eyes, or see how you are viewing her, Lovingly.
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