If I were to get rid of his card, who makes the house payment?

It is not my place to even go there and I do not have access to his credit cards or checking account. The only thing I manage and he has given me control over is the unemployment account and that is under $1000 per month--that is less than our house payment, but enough to pay utilities and his credit cards each month.

I am to the point where I really don't care what he is doing as I am sick and tired of it. I can only focus on me and the kids.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19