To AlexEN....sorry so much pain. If you think you will be dealing with multiple OM's,pull up a chair, light a cigar and read my thread. LOL

To 25...I wanted to be a doc my whole life. There is nothing more rewarding than to see someone so sick and in pain, and, intervene and make them well.

But yeah...there's homework..and groceries..and time away...

I recall how proud I was to 'have my W on my arm' at all those doc affairs. Lest people think otherwise, I would dance with her and whisper in her ear....they were those dances that, I thought, were the ones that we would still be doing when we were old and gray.

But STOP FIB. Ugh...that's a line that belongs in a much earlier post.

It's gone, over. Deida: she felt it then, she doesn't feel it now...like the ebb and flow of the tides. Surgeon, lacrosse hall of famer, bagpiper....LL coach....HUGE attraction factors....NOT.

Or should I say not anymore.

My W is probably with OM4 tonite as her presence in the house at nights is decreasing. I now enter the trials of frank_d....having it in my face until this is done.

I choose a path now that Kerryk takes...that mulesqb is taking...that DC tells me. It is not my problem anymore. I must keep clear and steady thru this mess.I don't intend to let my self-esteem 'become subterranean'.

Finally ...to my BetterMen here with young kids...how do you cope with and deal with the thought of an OM becoming a stepfather?

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;