I do know he has another credit card that has a substantial credit limit. I don't think he has really tapped into that but it seems to me that he is looking to me to help contribute more than I am. Okay, I am contributing--food, care for the kids........and some things i do pay for but he has always paid for the bulk of things.

He has no intentions of looking for a job from what I can tell.

I am not going to worry as God has always provided.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19