now here is how the rest of the evening went:

he was so-so but asked me how my book selling was going and i said okay, then he asked if i had a few hundred to put toward the mortgage payment and i almost flipped out. i said no, not at all--i am paying for some things but i also have to buy groceries so there is no way i can afford to contribute to the house payment.

he said he was getting to the point where he cannot borrow anymore from his credit card but i said nothing.

when he left and said he would come over "whenever...."


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19