You are not sending negative vibes... But God is probably sending some sort of other vibe.
My hubby was really kind of nasty the other day. He wasn't his usual "hi, how are you?" kind of self. A day later he dumps everything on me. Now he's back to his old sweet self. He just needed to talk and I'm so glad that it was me he talked to and not the OW. We still don't have the answers to our problems but hubby feels better.
Hopefully your husband will talk...it took my husband about 9 days to finally talk about some of the things that were bothering him. (I'm sure there is more to come.)