But to add to that, in a M, it doesn't matter what was right or wrong when you are trying to fix it. All right and wrong does is further ruin chances of reconciliation. Better to not point fingers and try and fix things instead.
My W blames me for all the wrong stuff I did and continually points it out to me. It doesn't fix anything because I can't change the past. I agree with her. I was wrong. How do we move forward in the right way?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...