Having an OK week but afraid of the weekend. My H wants to get together, problem for me is that while he is making changes I am still afraid that we will argue, and he will walk out. I am having increasing difficulty with the yo-yo thing. Though we are separated I still feel "left" when he leaves during an argument. The first couple of months, I did the DA stuff and found it worked for dealing with his emotional stuff and being ok, but then I noticed my own issues coming out more and recognized what I had to do for myself. I really need healing - I am hurt very badly and part of that healing for me requires him being consistent with me. HELP. How do I balance the need to heal with the need to reconcile?
