It takes a while to recover from this bug/crud. Get plenty of rest and drink lots of fluids. The rest is what helped me.
YR, how are your parents doing?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank for checking on me. All I want is cold water with lots of ice. I am glad at least I am not still in bed. I still have the cough but it is lessening.
Thanks for asking about my parents. My dad is doing wonderful!! He still goes to the doctor every week and goes to physical therapy 3 times a week. He has lost alot of weight and my mother said she is falling in love with him all over again! LOL! They will be married 53 years this year!!!!
My mother sounds so much better is she is using the oxygen. She had to have a bone scan and will hopefully find out the results tomorrow. She is a breast cancer survivor and has been having alot of back problems and falling alot so they want to make sure there is no cancer there. She is in good spirits though so that makes me feel better.
YR, I'm glad you are feeling better and that your parents seem to be gaining better health. Your mum's back problems could be due to steroid use while being treated for cancer. They may have caused osteoporosis. While that is still serious it is far less of a worry than a return of cancer.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
My mother didn't want chemo or any others radiation therapy. The doctor gave her no hope of survival. Out of thirteen lymph nodes they removed all but one had cancer in it. She gave it to God and when the doctor finally saw her for the last time he told her that she was a miracle woman. She has such a strong faith but it worried me so much that she wouldn't take any kind of treatment. But she made it! She is a tough lady!
I am not worried that the bone scan will show cancer, I just want her to find out what is wrong and hopefully get it fixed!
YR..I hope you are feeling better...I hate being sick...
...I miss you....I need you....H is draining the life out of me... Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
we've all been there. You have to find the inner strength within you to stop him. Until you can he will continue to drain your strength. Find it for your sanity if nothing else.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
I just got a call from him and his surgery has been moved up to tomorrow...he told me the OW is taking him and he is staying at her house after...I was crushed...WHY? I now know he is done with us..I have just loved him for so long and still do...I hate myself for that....I feel like I want it all to be over with...I cant stop crying...
He told me I needed to get past it all...that I need to quit crying in front of the kids that I'm prolonging them getting past it...he said my kids need to quit being holier than thou..and realize we all make mistakes...that I need to cancel my phone, the cable, quit getting my hair done, and all my extras...WTF? I have to give up everything to pay for a kid I don't even know, and trust me he IS HAPPY....he never breaks down when he's talking to me even though he knows how hurt I am..he doesn't care....I gave him 30 years and he threw it in my face..
I feel like its really done....and I'm so sad...
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
