Originally Posted By: AmyC
Well we had an absolute blast at the Skynyrd concert the night of January 2nd (I got him 2nd row tix for Christmas).
It ROCKED and we were together most of the next few days after that. He calls regularly but it's mostly just because we have so much crap going - D13 school trouble - S16 about to get his license - also the finances are a wreck so thanks to some info I got from Miss LolaL here we are looking at some options so he can save the house. His work schedule just got flipped upside down but that's going to be good in the long run because he will be back to five 8's - like regular people! That starts next week.

My current state of mind is this:
We can not even begin to consider the marriage with everything else so crazy. We're bailing water out of a sinking ship as fast as we can and there just isn't time to stop and decide whether we should jump overboard or try to hang in there together right now. I am absolutely at peace with this state we are in because we are working together and doing a pretty good job. Last week we had a major blowout with the middle school on D13s behalf and we were like a tag team.

The man has enough pressure on him.
We are more than just co-parents though.

When the first act was playing at the concert he put his arm around the back of my chair and was rubbing my shoulder. We slept together that night and HE wanted to "cuddle" (not much else was happening if you can read between the lines - I was at a Skynyrd concert, ya feel me? ;\) ). Since November (when I actually spent the night with him twice - yes in the "biblical" sense - things have changed. We are closer. Could just be me but the fact is after 3+ years, there's still JUST me - so that says something, I think.

Thanks for asking, Braveheart.




AW AMY, everyone sleeps together after a Skynard concert! LOL Don't lie to us, you seduced that poor man!!! LOL Sounds like you have a real shot Amy!!!