We eventually get to the point in a lot of our sitches where you just do what has to be done, DDay. I think that's where you are and I think it's a good place for you to be. Cross one bridge at a time and try not to let this overwhelm you. It easily could but forewarned is forearmed. Separate yourself and the boys from the people that aren't contributing positively to your life at this time and close ranks around the boys. I'm sorry I don't have more tangible advice right now. Just hang in there.
