Hi Sara - thanks for weighing in. You're right, it is a mental health issue. Today he went to the doctor and he put H on AA and ADs. He also has a counseling appointment tomorrow. He's been going pretty faithfully for about 9 months. He had been toying with quitting his job, but he always has trouble pulling the trigger on making decisions - something he and his C have talked about a bit. I'm just hoping that he gets this sitch resolved. I am forever the optomist. I must admit, I'd prefer to be dealing with this than another A-bomb, so I really should be counting my blessings.
Sara, without you we never would have made it to Retrouvaille. I don't think I've ever properly thanked you - so I'm doing it now. Thank you for speaking about your experiences. It made a difference!
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Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
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