Hi Amy & Welcome Back!

Situation wise, I just simply don't know what to do. My sister initially offered to help and reneged. I don't trust the 'renter' for anything that he will square up tomorrow on what he owes. FIL made a big stink over the check, so I left work early and pulled cash from my account which he never picked up after having the boys out late last night and S10 had a boatload of make up home work to do, so now I have more 'sweet talking' to do with the school.

Options are slim to none right now. Only possibility is a friend who stayed with me a while in the summer after W left is coming back into town and is serious about looking at a place together, at least I know I can trust him. Everybody else is so shadey right now you'd think it was a solar eclipse.

I've done nothing but help everyone out my whole life after being bounced on my rear as a 14 year old kid on my own and a few people helped me out then.

FIL backed out on his offer to reduce. I need to get out of there, no choice. But I need to stay in the area for the kids schooling at least, I don't know. Just don't know what to do. I have bills amassing in my name, so at this point I'm thinking instead of the renter giving me his portion, he needs to give it to FIL directly and I will just give FIL the difference I owe now and take care of the bills that are in MY name.

What a mess. Just when you think all is well, KABOOM! You're right back where you started from.

For some reason, I'm not letting it bother me that much, strange huh?


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11