Alright, gonna bust your chops again, but yeah, I think when you said thanks, no you could have been assertive, I need to go do whatever, and held firm and not let her put you in the friendship zone again. You can be assertive and not be rude and it would be good for your kids to see that. And I think you already know that b/c some of us tell you that like every day it seems like. I'm not mad, but I'm very disappointed in you...(love that one with the kids) I'm in total goober mood today if you haven't noticed.... Karen