So I emailed H back saying sure I'll pay the bill although I couldn't help adding in (ok I'm not perfect) I think you were supposed to pay the bills in November. OK, this came back from him: i don't understand your comment about me paying it. i was voluntarily paying everything i did not have any order which required it. nevertheless i will pay half even though you wrote the check. It's funny b/c he just irritates me so much sometimes but this one actually made me laugh. Just funny and predictable. I'm going to pay the bill (my cell is charging now) and thank him for sending the info and tell him I paid it. I also finally listened to my vms today and he brought the kids almost an hour late last night, but called my vm to let me know, so I plan to thank him for that and ignore the rude stuff, like dealing with a kid which I guess sometimes they kind of are. I'm feeling strong today, full of Jesus and a self-help book I've been reading! He can't get me down when I'm having the good pma. Hope y'all are too!!! Karen