I'm like an onion, every time I think I'm good I find another layer to peel
Maybe we're operating on different definitions of 'well adjusted'. For me it's doing my best to take care of myself so I can give as much as I can. Of course there's always more to work on. Doesn't set me back to square one when I find a new layer. I just keep chippin' away and being happy for what I have instead of getting wrapped up in my angst.
You might try reading some old poster's threads from start to finish before going off with random judgements about the futility of any of our efforts. And you might find out that Puppy Dog Tails is a guy.
Or, go ahead and be frustrated and angry about your situation in general. That'll bring you all kinds of happiness.
