Instead of concentrating on what you don't like about your marriage, take some time to concentrate on how you would like your marriage to be.
What parts of your relationship do you want more of? More open and honest conversation. More intimate moments such as long drives.
What are the times in your marriage that you'd like to "re-create"? Our wedding day. Lazy days when we would just laugh and joke and do nothing but be with each other.
What are some new things that you'd like to see happen? Open and honest communication. Friendship.
"When my spouse stops doing ___________, what will s/he be doing?"
