ditto Snodderly. But dang, that would really sting to see it in writing. My younger sister would stare at the checks her xh sent to see if he wrote a note and then analyze it. Finally the ow married sister's xh and SHE would write the notes about financials and that made my sister go nuts...anyhow, you are handling it better than most of us. Excellent fast response.
Oh, and yeah, be sure to let them know if you remarry...Geez!! WTH?? As if you are rushing out to do that...or would maybe want to let THEM know first. Yes, get their mailing address for the invitation...sheesh!
check to see if your decree says you have to remarry to get the alimony reduced b/c if it doesn't say that cohabitation is prohibited...maybe you could tell the ho that you are living with several younger guys and don't see any reason to marry just ONE of them... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
