What parts of your relationship do you want more of?

definately comunication.. i feel that was the breakdown, i didnt know what W was goin thru inside her mind and heart which led to her abrupt action of leaving on the spot without any warning.

What are the times in your marriage that you'd like to "re-create"?

being together at home and making plans for our future... being in each others arms... sleeping together again close in a hug... experiencing the love from her i never knew was fading.

What are some new things that you'd like to see happen?

w will stop looking for an apt of her own and come back from her friends house... w and i will talk about all the probs that we see and lay it all out on the table to be worked on... w and i will renew wedding vows... w will never feel the need to hide things from me on how she feels due to fear of rejection.


"When my spouse stops doing ___________, what will s/he be doing?"

when my spouse stops running, she will be back home ready to tackle our R and be willing to make improvements WITH me.



"What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger."