Trouble is I think I've detached for a couple of days and then made contact so this latest attempt probably feels the same to my H. But patience seems to be the key.

As for your sitch I know what it's like to have kids in trouble so don't beat yourself up I expect emotions were high all round and it's no surprise that you spoke up. However it does seem to have given your W something to think about which keeps you on her agenda not a bad thing. Remember believe only 90% of what they say or something like that.

JDOllie like the advise that's exactly what we want a new relationship without looking for a new person


married 23 years
4 grown up kids