NLT it's business contact now and that is it. He has hurt you and there is no reason to be anything but business. I am sure she is monitoring the e-mail. She has to make sure she is handling all the money stuff.

I like that; "if you re-marry you should notify me at this email address immediately." Like that is the furthest thing in your mind right now. It's her way of controlling the money stuff. I am sure if you re-marry then the alimony stops. See it's the money stuff. So sad, but you get a glimpse of who she/they are now.

Stay strong!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"