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I must be doing something wrong because I was seeing baby steps and now my H has withdrawn As soon as I don't initiate then he backs off.? If I show him I care by a hug, touching, compliments I seem to get more back. When I do nothing, I get nothing



It might just be time to experiment with the initiating again. Just to see what happens.

"What works" can be different in each couple's situation. I would suggest trying the hugs, touching, and compliments again, since it seemed to be working before!

Pay close attention to see if there are times, places, or circumstances that work better than others for you.

Also, watch carefully for the times that HE does the initiating, and make sure you "catch him doing it right"! Maybe he'll begin to repeat those performances!

JJ

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