Goal setting rule #2- "Think Action" 1) Being friendly with each other (accomplished this one) 2) Giving each other hugs (were doing this now we are not, I usaully initiated this most of the time, when I quit he doesn't seem to want to now) should I let him be the leader or should I? 3)friendly kissing (same as above, he kissed me a few times, once I asked for a kiss and he gave me one, buut now?, nothing) I don't know what happened!? I seem to be going backward by letting him take the lead always. 4)teasing and being playful (this has happened a few times and both of us has initiated it) 5)calling me 6)compliment me 7)my H ask how I am (he use to) 8)bring some of his stuff home 9)spending time together 10)enjoying hobbies together-fishing, golfing, ect. 11)spend the day with me 12)say ILY 13)stay overnight 14)be intimate I must be doing something wrong because I was seeing baby steps and now my H has withdrawn As soon as I don't initiate then he backs off.? If I show him I care by a hug, touching, compliments I seem to get more back. When I do nothing, I get nothing
As soon as I don't initiate then he backs off.? If I show him I care by a hug, touching, compliments I seem to get more back. When I do nothing, I get nothing 