The D is dismissed. Now what?

[glamgirl]

Checking on you Upside? How are things going? I would continue the MC, but I wouldn't have any R talks outside of MC. I don't have those talks with my h unless we are in MC, since many times they just don't go well.

My h gets on the defensive and uses what I say against me. One day I think we will be able to have those tough discussions, but not right now. Everything is still too sensitive, if that makes sense.

Your h must feel no pressure when he is with you or he won't be able to see himself returning.