What parts of your relationship do you want more of? Being intimate and spending quality time together.
What are the times in your marriage that you'd like to "re-create"? When my H asked me to go with him and spend time together. I also enjoyed our vacations together, there were no pressures, having fun was a priority!
What are some new things that you'd like to see happen? Show affection in public and go out on dates.
"When my spouse stops doing ___________, what will s/he be doing?"
When my spouse stops doing things for the OW, he will be spending more time with our making our R work.
