in a galaxy far, far away...

[glamgirl]

BM for months and possibly a year and a half, my h was cold and distant. I think the longest we had NO contact was for 3 weeks or more. He is not going to give you any indication he still loves you. Don't look for that. He is lost and gone for NOW!

Also for the longest time my h would not contact me for days at a time. For example, if he came to the house on a sunday and then was expected again until Thursday, we would not here from him on Mon Tues or Wed. In the beginning he really only came to the house once or twice a week. Sometimes not at all. Now he comes over 5-6 days a week.

I guess what I am saying here, is that what is the absolute today might not be the same a year or 2 later. That is why this is a process and a long journey.