Hi KJ,

Glad you managed to get in here. I am probably NOT the best person to be giving advice on detaching at the moment, check my thread to see why :S

What I can say though, is after talking to my W today and asking her how she felt with me not calling her, she told me...

"it was nice not to have you calling me all the time, but apart from that, I felt the same really".

Remember that she called me once in 9 days before our family crisis that called an end to my NC.

Whether that was the truth or 'babble' I have no idea, but that is what she THINKS she feels at the moment.

Me: 50
W: 45
M 24 T 26
S:23 S:21
WAW 15/8/08

Now living it large