I hate this part...GOALS! Yuck. Okay I revised and they are pretty simple but hopefully attainable. Here goes:

Goals for the M:
1. I want H to be home by our anniversary (OK it's a BIG goal but I'm hoping...besides, thats 6 months away!
2. I want to be able to say "I believe you" and mean it.
3. I want him to be comfortable around me, not stressed.

Goals for me, personally:
1. I will attend counseling for my self esteem/trust issues.
2. I will get out more instead of hiding at home.
3. I will work on detachment.

I am not real good at goal-setting but that is the basics of what I'm aiming for.

If God is your co-pilot, SWITCH SEATS!!!!!