I'll second Puppy's comment, thank you...as to why I've been here: it's to help each other through the tough sitches we're in, and to support and encourage each other in making changes in OURSELVES that give us strength and help us become better adjusted, regardless of the outcome of the marriage. No one progresses if they're only here to cry and moan about how bad the WAS is.
So, how does ranting about how judgemental and blind-to-self we all are help or change anything for your sitch? What's your point? Solutions is what we're about. It's all in the perspective, your choice what you look at.
