Itsy, I was hoping you would hold off inviting him over. I didn't want to come out and say it because you have to make that decision on your own.
I think you still need more time for him to settle down. He just got ugly w/you again in the past few months and it's uncalled for. I don't think you are completely ready for a face to face meeting w/him yet. You may think you are, but you are still a bit "fragile" from what you have had to deal w.
Time will tell on whether or not he should be invited. Let things be for a while. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
