Hey kjackson, they do notice and at first they are probably relieved which is good actually, however they will start to worry after it's been a while. Each time you contact them they will think it's a pathetic attempt to get their attention so it's always a good idea to just wait them out. They WILL contact you, it's just a matter of time (can be days or weeks even). Use this free time to detach from them and do things you'd normally not do if they were around.
The be honest, at this stage if my W called and wanted to try again I'm afraid I'd tell her no. She has left me now 3 times to be with the OM and I simply do not trust her. I don't want to talk her and I only want her to email or txt me just so I can ignore it to show I'm no longer waiting on her. I have no desire to contact her anymore.
Me:38 W:40 Bomb/EA 03/08 Recon twice 1/09 W files for D Story