Hi got this thread from silvagod in newcomers and he suggested I join. I'm on day 8 and still NC. It's frustrating but is making me feel stronger.

Got 4 grown up kids so no need to contact about them they contact him direct if necessary.

Bit worried that my H is just relieved I've stopped contact or worse still hasn't really noticed. Any thoughts?


married 23 years
4 grown up kids