Tom,
We seem to be just about the same place as far as detaching.
It's hard !!
My W have never got along so well as we are now. She is finally pushing back when something bothers her. Still it's only focussed on the kids.
I hate saying this but ... I still can't believe this is happening. I can't believe my W is not doing anything to save a marriage and a family. Especially given how well we are getting along.
I can’t write much to day as I am feeling really upset about this.
Here comes the emotional roller coaster again......
At least I get my kids tonight and that makes me so happy. Lately I have been feeling sad for them having to live a life where they get bounced around from home to home. My kids claim they like it as they have two homes. I am from divorce and I can tell you it's not so good. My kids will long for their parents to be together until they are into their 20's.


Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09