I concur with JJ.

You talk about initiating these things. Are you usually the initiator? When things are going well in your relationship?

What about dropping all initiation. Working on attracting him to initiate. Things like JJ says....that drive him wild.


What are the things you do that light your inner fire, make you attractive? Your glow. Do you sing, dance, hike, make turkey soup? What are 'YOUR' things?


What are you really good at?

What drew him to you to begin with?


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001