Good point, Donna. I never priced all that stuff out. In the end, does a financial affidavit decide how much each of us "gets"? I thought it might be more formulaic. I offered her EXACTLY what the mediator set out, which is little over $3K a month. I now "GIVE" her $4400 a month! I'm tired of it. She went skiing with the kids. S10 forgot his jacket, and she was able to buy him a new $200 jacket. I know it's for the kids, but I couldn't afford this. She refused to pay for D18's books at schools yesterday ($186), so I did. (I'll just giver her less next check!!!)
I have to sit in Family Court ALL day tomorrow because of her stupid "motions" See my lawyer today, BUT gym woman tonight! Other than my STBX psycho bi&ch from hell, things are good!