Step Number 2 - Know What You Want

[Jamesjohn]

help me, am i on the right track?

Without knowing more about your situation, I would have to ask you if the dinner date is something that seems very doable right now, or is it something that's too far-reaching? If you think that it is doable, then I think that the thigh highs would be a GREAT idea!! If not, then you might want to set your goals more towards working up to the date.

Also, you might want to break down "physically intimate" a bit more. Will you be satisfied with some shoulder rubbing, maybe some hand holding, some light kisses, maybe some heavier kisses? Or would you be looking for a "home run"?!

If you're looking for the last one right now, and you're not already getting some of the others, it will be difficult to see any small steps that you're making if this doesn't happen that night.

But DO keep some focus on doing things that will "drive him wild"! Keep chipping away at his defenses!!